I think my sons girlfriend is, He was going to brakeup with her yesterday and all of a sudden she's with child. Hmmmm
my brothers girlfriend did! tell him to ask her for the a positive pregnancy test and tell him he needs to go to the dr with her. good luck with that craziness!
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22 Responses for "Anyone ever fake a pregnancy to keep a guy ?"
No; but I have obviously heard of other girls who have. I, personally, think it is a disgusting thing to do.
Have your son go to a doctor's appointment with her and he'll find out for sure…
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I personally never have but have known a gal to have done this…
Pretty dishonest but it happens..have him make her pee on a stick in front of him to prove it.
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no thats just selfish and wrong
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ive know ppl that did that to friends of mine…i think its the most horrible thing u can do
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most likely unless she has been for a while and didnt tell him. have him get her to take a test to prove it.
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my brothers girlfriend did! tell him to ask her for the a positive pregnancy test and tell him he needs to go to the dr with her. good luck with that craziness!
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tell him not to sleep with her. that happened to a guy I knew — girl told him she was pregnant, then they had unprotected sex (since she was already pregnant). But she had been LYING, and then she did get pregnant because they weren't using anything.
Also my husband says he had three girls in high school tell him they were pregnant and none of them ever was.
Make sure your son sees the test!!!
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No, that's horrible!
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i never have, but have herd of a few girls doing it. Talk to her about it. Have you gotton her to do a pregnancy test?
I think alot of girls would have tried that to keep a guy
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when i was pregnant with my first my daughters father thought i was lieing i said ok let's take the test i sure as hell took it ooo that line showed up i said ha but whoever fake a pregnancy to keep a guy is a little koo koo
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I know plenty of girls that have done that. As soon as i got with my boyfriend, all the lil girls that had been with him within the last four months were suddenly pregnant, but he didnt listen and the only two kids he has I GAVE BIRTH TO.
DONT TRUST HER EVEN IF SHE SHOWS YOU A TEST!! My ex best friend had another of her friends take a test because she WAS pregnant and she used that to "prove" that she was pregnant. If he has any doubts, get a DNA test. Yea, they cost a couple hundred dollars but he doesnt have to pay that unless he really IS the father. And if he aand has to pay it, just remember that at least he didnt pay thousands of dollars in support for a kid that wasnt his.
Good Luck!
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NO I was really pregant for real! And the guys is not worth keeping just becasue of a child!
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I have never done that and never would. I have heard people do that to try and save their relationship and of course it doesn't help the relationship. I would tell her that you want proof that she is indeed pregnant.
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wow thats horrible
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no…he'll eventually know that she's not though =/
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I haven't and think its a bad idea. She could take an at home pregnancy test. How old is this couple?
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No, but i'm on the other end of your situation. I was preganant with his child and he didn't believe me. He ran away and I'm now raising his daughter with another man who is the only father she's ever known. Her biological father went to one Dr. appointment with me and I think it was only to verify I was pregnant. It was a very disgusting way to act. If she is faking you'll know soon enough.
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I've never done that personally, but I have been asked to pee on a test, when pregnant so someone else could fake it. Of course I didn't do it. I think it's awful, but apparently it's very common. I hope that if this girl is crazy enough for you to suspect, that she isn't pregnant for your sons sake!
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That sucks… I hope your right. he needs to keep using protection. Eventually nothing would happen meaning she wouldnt be pregnant. I have seen this before though. In High school I saw a girl poke holes in condoms to keep her boy( poor kid ) and I have seen girls get pregnant women pee on a test to keep a guy. The problem is that boys or men figure well she is already pregnant no need for prtection and the end up getting pregnant anyway. some little girls act so crazy for boys and destroy both their lives in the process.
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no never had done this but i know a few girls that have. In my opinion if she had any brains she would no that having a baby don't keep no man if he wants to leave he's gonna leave. good luck to you and your son. tell hm to go with her to see a doctor and if she's telling the truth she won't have a probably with him going with her.
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I'm kind of embarassed to say this, but I actually seriously considered doing this to someone I was dating when I was a bit younger . I was about 18 years old and "in love" with this person I now know is a loser but back then I thought he was the greatest thing since sliced bread…When he broke up with me I thought of every possible thing I could do to get him back… and the fake pregnancy was definitely in those thoughts, lol. It's something that women who have low self confidence and feel like they "need" the guy do. I am assuming your son and his girlfriend are very young like I was. Thankfully age and wisdom have taken effect and I would never consider a silly desperate act like that now, lol. The only way to know for sure if she is really pregnant or faking it is to have her take a pregnancy test (preferably a blood test at the doctor). She could be lying to him, but there is a chance she is telling the truth so its better to find out for sure, rather than accuse a possibly innocent person of being a liar.
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No, but I know a couple of girls that have done.
Needless to say, they now are friendless and manless! Serves them right.
As for your sons girlfriend, tricky situation. I would really try and work the situation, without actually accusing her, so that you can go and get a definite answer and SOON. Don't leave her time to feign a miscarriage, because then you'll never know. And you could never ask her then, because if she WAS being truthful and really had had a miscarriage, it would be the most awful thing for her not to be believed, bear that in mind.
Play the "I want to be involved" card. Perhaps confide in your son your worries so he understands why you might be seen to be 'interferring'. But insist you go to the doctors with them both, as a concerned and involved prospective grandparent, to get a definite confirmation of the pregnancy. If she starts making excuses, you will then have a reason to be suspicious, so you'll have grounds to confront her - perhaps buy her a HPT, and tell her to pee on it or get out your sons life!
But don't do anything that rash before she has given you further grounds to suspect. She could after all be the carrier of your future grandchild.
But most importantly, be there for your son. Advise him that if she IS pregnant, he shouldn't let this trap him into a relationship he doesn't want. A child CAN have a good upbringing with seperated parents, in fact I think it is far better for the child to have that than to have parents who are in a loveless relationship, making arguments and tension more commonplace in the family environment. Also if one or both of them continues the relationship unwillingly now, a split further down the line is almost inevitable. It is much better for this to happen sooner rather than later, as if the child is old enough to realise what's going on s/he will be hurt and affected.
But advise him to handle the break up carefully if she is pregnant, for fear of risking getting her back up and her denying him access - although I'm sure if it went to court he would be granted visitation rights, it's always far better to come to an amicable arrangements.
I hope, whatever the outcome of this, you and your family are happy
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